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  • idiomaddict@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneCorruption rule
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    5 days ago

    Incredibly bad take incoming:

    I don’t have a problem with widespread corruption inherently, but it has to be well understood and broadly applicable (which it generally isn’t).

    For the average citizen, it doesn’t make much of a difference if you have to pay a €10 processing fee at town hall to get a copy of an official document or if you give the teller €10 under the table to make sure your document gets processed. In fact, there’s an argument to be made that the bribe fosters the local economy more than the processing fee. The problem occurs when a person who does not expect corruption doesn’t pay the €10 that no one tells them is necessary and doesn’t get their document.

    Of course the processing fee, being publicly disclosed, is subject to pushback from the populace as a whole, whereas the bribe can be set based on how badly the individual needs something from the government/how positively the official feels about the individual and can therefore be incredibly unfairly applied, which is obviously worse.









  • idiomaddict@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonesensoruley
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    18 days ago

    I think it’s a matter of degree. If the tag is sharp/stiff/crumpled enough to actually redden or mark your skin or is especially itchy, most people will notice and be bothered. If it’s one of those flat, soft, shiny tags lying correctly, most people don’t notice them.

    I don’t always remove mine because that sometimes makes it worse, but I wear my undershirts inside out, which sidesteps the problem. For shirts I wear without undershirts, I’m okay with most of the soft tags at the neck most of the time, but care instructions are sometimes sewn into the side and that drives me fucking nuts.




  • She shouldn’t care, but it’s natural. When I got cheated on, I knew it was my partner who was the cause, but a tiny voice in the back of my brain said it was because the other person was better. I looked through their Facebook for a little bit while feeling sad, then pulled myself together and wrote a scathing letter to the cheater explaining exactly that, that I now had insecurities that weren’t there before, and that I wasn’t tearing myself up thinking about them, but the other person.

    I guess that’s kind of what carrie underwood did, just publicly and give or take some fantasizing about property damage.