I'm back on my BS 🤪

I’m back on my bullshit.

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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • I’m straight, but I’m pretty sure my uncle and sister think I’m gay since I argue against their homophobia, got close to my openly gay cousin, and value “feminine” traits. I never try to insist I’m straight to them either. They can think what they want, regardless of the consequences. I’m not going to be a prisoner of their self-righteous, narcissistic stupidity.












  • We were getting ready to have sex. I saw that one of our blanket had a brown stain on it, and she said she had wiped her hands on it after eating chocolate. We had sex. Months later, she admitted that she actually wiped her ass with the blanket to make sure she didn’t have shit on her asshole. She was nasty af, but we ended up breaking up for another reason. She was a deranged narcissist. I’m not saying this as a layperson that watched YouTube videos to get over the relationship. I actually went to a therapist that is a nationally renowned specialist on narcissistic relationships.





  • Ask them the same question is various ways multiple times, preferably several minutes or conversations apart. For example:

    • Are you doing anything later?
    • What are you doing later?
    • Got any plans for after this?
    • Are you free later?

    Once they catch on or start getting frustrated, suggest activities that conflict with their plans but would be rude to argue because you’re being caring or excited to partake:

    • Maybe you could get some rest tonight.
    • Want to go on a drive with me to the beach?
    • There’s a video I saw on YouTube that is so pertinent to [something central to their current life]. I want to show it to you. proceed to pull up a 2+ hr documentary
    • Oh, my favorite restaurant is having a deal, I haven’t been in soooo long and starving. Let’s go for dinner!
    • I have a surprise for you later that I knowwww you’ll love. I’m so excited.

    Note: This may damage your relationship with them or cause them to think you are mentally/emotionally unwell.

    A separate idea is, when interacting with someone you meet occasionally, where the exact same outfit every time, but only wear that outfit around them. This would be even better if you share the same social circle because eventually they will bring it up to others that will disagree with them.