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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonemusic rule
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    1 month ago

    got really tired of the “-core” haters, they seem to get upset only at the naming convention because hardcore influences often make a subgenre even heavier

    like have you ever heard of mathcore?? that shits peak, its one of the noisiest subgenres i know AND it has hardcore influence

    gatekeepers can stay mad


  • id argue a police officers job is hard in a police state as well,

    i of course agree with acab but i also think its worth empathizing with officers whose mental health has been ruined by their training (see That Dang Dad on youtube who WAS a police officer and still experiences the pain of his “training”). theyre trained to be afraid and see danger everywhere, which is fucked, and as such being a police officer is not a job with 0 drawbacks. we all hate police, i sure as hell do, but no one should be trained to live in permanent fear, seeing murderers in everyone.












  • Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone"Help" rule
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    3 months ago

    fun fact for the future: someone being suicidal is not your problem and you should not try to help beyond referring them to helpful resources

    theres a reason mental health professionals are PROFESSIONALS and not just random kind people

    you are (likely) not trained to handle this situatuon and thus should not engage in this lest you experience real trauma or worsen the other persons situation

    so do not kill yourself in the process of trying to be the sole force stopping them

    edit: felt the need to add if someone you know is experiencing suicidality, oftentimes the best and safest choice is just to make plans

    suicidality is, in the majority of cases, spurred by short-term issues making people feel trapped in their current situation

    so plan things with them! plan going out to a concert or restaurant! plan how they can enjoy life in the future!

    this is something i feel VERY strongly about because of my own past experiences with feeling the need to “negotiate”

    keep in mind im not saying you cant just talk about life with people expressing these ideas, just make sure the conversation doesnt turn into a “negotiation”

    ty for reading my long ass comment thats indirectly about my own experiences i love all of you lemmings kthxbye <3