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Cake day: June 23rd, 2024

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  • A summary of what she previously shared, including on prior accounts: Their sex life is quite fulfilling but he could be more aware of her needs. Accepting her as she transitions is great but there are some things he said and did that made her uncomfortable, and he’s not really the type to offer consolation hugs Miisha often requests virtually (one of the reasons I got her the Blåhaj). I don’t know much from his perspective. Miisha is quite hard-headed but overestimates how mean she is (and internalizes transphobia), a healthier relationship with herself and better handling of emotions is required on her part.


  • decent emotional intelligence

    healthy conflict resolution skills

    I’d say she needs more time to grow, actually. (Not gonna lie, so do I.) The frequent “pauses” they take from each other indicate that relationship counselling is overdue (I found her a local, free, LGBTQ+friendly clinic but she wouldn’t go)