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Cake day: June 23rd, 2024

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  • A summary of what she previously shared, including on prior accounts: Their sex life is quite fulfilling but he could be more aware of her needs. Accepting her as she transitions is great but there are some things he said and did that made her uncomfortable, and he’s not really the type to offer consolation hugs Miisha often requests virtually (one of the reasons I got her the Blåhaj). I don’t know much from his perspective. Miisha is quite hard-headed but overestimates how mean she is (and internalizes transphobia), a healthier relationship with herself and better handling of emotions is required on her part.


  • decent emotional intelligence

    healthy conflict resolution skills

    I’d say she needs more time to grow, actually. (Not gonna lie, so do I.) The frequent “pauses” they take from each other indicate that relationship counselling is overdue (I found her a local, free, LGBTQ+friendly clinic but she wouldn’t go)












  • gain any sort of relevance on 196

    I’m sorry to be scolding you, you’re a nice person, but what kind of attitude is that?! Is this a competition?

    You’re already notorious with your distinct handwriting and daily posts, this is just a bit of what I remember off the top of my head:
    your account is @Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone (as displayed by my client) but actually you’re maria from Germany, you like drawing and mr. blåhaj, and you sometimes make crunchy chocolate milk and prefer qwen to SaaS LLMs or media generators.

    Yes, Miisha’s level of posting has been excessive and with so much attention I directed at supporting her, I’ve seen fewer of your posts, but it’s the kind of energy influx this community needed. There will be more 196 subscribers and they will come to love your posts, too.