Rexxit

Are you trying to avoid some kind of account-flagging or something?

FRF: food, recreation, fitness (and maybe volunteering which could in a sense be seen as recreation) will do it. I try to combine two of any of the above in a single day’s worth of proposed events, like a hike and then lunch, etc.

It’s not easy. You have to be really dedicated to keeping friendships alive by pinging every 2-3 weeks (monthly is probably just a little bit too long). Then see how often they do so with you over time, or how they attempt to carry conversations after initiation. Back away from the ones who just do not reciprocate, for one reason or another (and know that it’s not a reflection of you!). You may face many, many cancellations or outright rejections or possibly standups. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.

Okay, well, it wasn’t clear to me and it sounded like you were coming down on the knowledge base of all the users just as much as the corporation that created the environment. I think we have to give credit to the company for at least building the environment in the first place for us to learn how the environment itself works, as much as our own interactions with each other. Now that we have more federated content, then down they can go, but I’m saying they have had their legitimate, positive place in the history of our online social development.

I never said “I didn’t learn a single thing while I was there”

I know; that’s why I asked if that was the case, to check. So I do not agree that “any form of corporate social media is harmful.” It’s more of a mixed bag. The bottom line is that I’m ultimately grateful for Reddit’s existence, or at least how it was at one point in time before it became eviler, and I think we all should be, and that’s why by extension I feel that anyone who just blanket-states it as horrible and annihilation-worthy (that’s what your statement sure sounded like) wasn’t going to nontoxic, edifying communities, a.k.a. didn’t figure out how to use it correctly.

To me, it’s like people pooping on ChatGPT. Yes, it has its limitations, and yes, it’s gotten many things blatantly wrong and forged literal lies. But if you know how to use it correctly and stay aware of its issues, it is life-changing. I’m not defending the atrocities of Reddit, either, but the whole picture is not as bleak as “any form” of it being harmful.

Why are they harmful? Are you saying you didn’t learn a single thing while you were there? Redditors helped me greatly. Reddit was simply the platform through which we discussed incredible ideas and life tips, and I literally found and made friendships on there that we went off Reddit for and have lasted since 2014+; I even talk to one such online friend daily, and am very focused on helping another who’s in dire straits IRL. Additionally, I learned a fair bit about CSS upfront as a mod of various small subs.

If you really think “any form of corporate social media is harmful” then I have to question how you were using it.

we can’t hear the frequencies they normally communicate with

And… what… are… those? How are they making such sounds? Their mouths certainly aren’t open…