As a 30-40 year old male (maybe old man) who is a boss, hates gender roles (and questioning in general), hates etiquette, pretending to be fine, hates expectations and judgement—I wouldn’t have guessed which community this was in that turned up in my feed. So if anything—I’m glad most of my insecurities align here. Not sure if this helps anyone (go solidarity!). Take care everyone.

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