As long as we can take the rich with us, let the baby burn 🔥🔥🔥

I only have upvotes and downvotes on Jerboa, no scores.

You are literally 12?

Honestly I think it’s perfectly fine and I don’t think it makes you more/less neurotypical at all. I just think there’s different folks and they like different strokes, y’know?

I’m not coming at it from “hating” small talk, everything is so insanely intense these days, whenever I talk about anything critically people assume I “hate” it, but I don’t, I’m actually just curious about it. I think it would be cool if I could learn to appreciate small talk for instance, but for that I’d need to actually understand what it’s about. But I suppose it’s just not for me because I just don’t really have those thoughts like “nice day today” and such.

See as an ADHDer what I don’t understand is if not for us - what do neurotypicals talk about and how do they do it? Like when medicated I don’t feel compelled to “overshare”.

But then where there used to be a long “rant” about something I deeply enjoy and am interested in, I’d just say nothing instead, or something like “nothing much”, which also got weird reactions and seemed kinda anti-social. So I started occasionally doing it again and people seem to enjoy it.

But not all people, and definitely not all the time. Don’t get me wrong it’s not like I cut people off to talk about my shit, if they share, I share, in most social situations I don’t initiate conversations and speak only really when spoken to.

So I don’t get this, what would I actually talk about to anyone if talking about myself is infodumping?

Food and weather? Sure, but that’s one time, maybe twice, but coworkers you talk to every day? Your actual friends/acquaintances?

Doesn’t it get old for them?

Why would anyone even talk to anyone at all if it’s just pointless bullshit like “oh you also consume warm animal flesh alongside vegetables for sustinence and dopamine? Wow truly incredible! I’d never heard of this, now that’s exciting! What’s crazy is - I do it too.”

I don’t want to go all “heckin’ normies” but I honestly wonder if the few people who do complain about me oversharing or infodumping something I’m interested in are honestly just jealous that they don’t got anything half as interesting to talk about and that I can be so happy and excited just talking about fairly boring things, and even make other people vaguely interested, if only as a matter of trivia.

My S.O. is an ADHDer as well. She and I just infodump our interests on each other, we are polite and ask follow up questions so the other person feels heard, then relate it to something of mutual interest and from then on decide on an activity.

That’s the most socializing form of socializing I’ve ever done honestly, and idk how else I would do it with anyone close or otherwise.

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Great honestly. Had no issues. It’s a broader culture but everyone I spoke to there is usually chill and based af.

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I got that, but is there something specific in the news with TERFs being forced or? Some kind of new law by them that backfired or?

Otherwise this is just kinda dumb NGL.

Damn a Lemmy TERF. You lost or something sweaty?

Context?

“Bad relations” is how you can put it and just shut down further questions.

Why is you explaining it breaking the law? Can you not mention sanctions either? RuTube is also already a thing, it started in like the earlu 2000s during the brief Russian tech boom, alongside VK, LiveJournal, Ozon, avito, mail dot ru and Ramblr which were all the same thing - copy of a western site with some changes.

They don’t care consciously, but subconsciously they’ll know and remember the time and idea was defended badly whenever it comes up, especially if their knowledge on it is a blank or close to blank slate.

If you make it entertaining and thus a source of dopamine, and even better yet very consumable - you’ve got bonafide content and then people start caring, even if it’s only for lulz.

They’ll associate your views with intelligent witty dunks and the dopamine they bring and have a favourable view of them.

That’s both the model of the “Le angry feminazis!” reaction channels of the post-gamergate world and the hbomberguys of the world, especially his earliee stuff.

You win debates for onlookers, you’re not meant to change the perspective of the person you’re debating, you’re meant to make them look like idiots so that any lurkers who quietly agree feel bad and change their viewpoint. The left lost because they weren’t willing to do this hard enough.

Yeah it would be a great place for rightoids to hunt queers and attack them on optics

People in the current year literally believe this