Most things I’ve seen were 18+, if only to skirt by the laws. I haven’t seen much though so I may be completely off, but that would seem a little illegal otherwise.

Usually its anime girls that are actually older than they appear.

Fun fact, that’s a condition that actually occurred to a girl in real life, she looked 12 and visibly didn’t hit puberty, she was 20.

Its okay to have skimpy or 18+ photos and content, just not for the purpose of porn. Lots of places like that on Reddit too, especially in dark humor accepting areas.

Would be even better if the porn instances started federating, two horny instances federating might make another instance and then that’s how children are made.

I think its the “never raise this subject here again” Comes off as a bit aggressive.

I think a better thing to do would be updates to Lemmy that allow for user customization and then have user styles adjust those customized features, that way its more decentralized and more in the spirit of a federalized community.

I actually would really like something like new Reddit, Lemmy is far too horizontally dense despite wasting tons of space on both sides. I can’t actually tell which comment is the top most either.

Generally its just difficult to discern what exactly I’m seeing.

If I don’t find something soon-ish I’ll probably get deep into making my own restyle script.

I was in so many niche places that I think it’ll be hard to really find somewhere to connect with.