A gay person existing doesn’t actually literally harm anyone though. A homphobe shouting slurs at a gay person, excluding them from vital social, economic or whatever activity or beating them up does very concretely harm someone. It’s not that difficult.

Anarchism and communism are 95% the same in regards to goals. They just have different views on how to get there, that differ very little or a lot depending on the specific sub ideology, of which there are many. The 5% with different goals are some anarchist tendencies which want to keep markets and money, like mutualism. Everyone else wants a stateless, moneyless and classless society where people contribute according to their ability and receive according to their need on the basis of mutual aid. And no, “anarcho”-capitalism is not a thing, that’s an oxymoron.

So, I’m not completely ace, but I am 95% and seemingly get more ace every year that goes by. Thing is, there’s a difference between sexual impulse and arousal on one hand and attraction to an actual person on the other. I get horny as hell every single month during my ovulation because my uterus is screaming and begging me to make babies, and that’s usually when my once or twice a month masturbation happens. But the last time I met an actual real life person I was sexually attracted to was 4 years ago.

I can also find the idea of a person sexually arousing, but still won’t find the actual person attractive. I know this from experience, because when I was much younger and didn’t know myself as well I did act on the attraction to the idea of a person only to be sorely disappointed when it actually happened and I felt nothing.

This is only my own experience of course, but I hope this helps a bit in understanding it.

Lmao I’ve been an atheist all my life but I do always joke that God hates me in particular because there’s no other explanation for my life

The solipsistic Chad vs the believing in an external world virgin

It isn’t. I have a bunch of ikea furniture because I’m not really settled in where I live, so it’s nice and easy and lightweight to take apart and move every 3 years. For one, it absolutely isn’t that expensive, and it’s pretty good quality. My oldest pieces are two kallax units that were already second hand when I bought them 6 years ago, and they’re still in the exact same condition as when I bought them, even through 3 moves. The only thing I’m disappointed about are a couple of wooden folding chairs because the horizontal slats tend to get loose and fall out, but you can just pop them back in in 5 seconds. It’s obviously not as good as high quality non-ikea furniture, but if you (have to) move often and don’t have much money, it’s just a good and practical choice.