He/Him | >18 | autistic | bi | Polish guy | :3

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Cake day: July 25th, 2023

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  • I agree with what you said too, especially on the topic of conversation, but I don’t know how the spectrum of good and bad applies in the context of that sentence. Teens shouldn’t have sex before 18. I agree with what you said and how it should be approached, however having sex when you’re younger than 18 isn’t “not bad”. It can influence a person in a very negative way and approaching it like they did just feels wrong.

    I’m also concerned by the amount of like/dislike ratio both of their comments had. I checked the post and blue got more downvotes, where as the orange got more upvotes and the fact that so many people don’t really see a problem with people below the age of consent having sex scares me.






  • Oh, ok. Yeah I completely get it.

    Though I do just sometimes have those weird feelings, like with how so many people just look the same aside from the name, that I’m not really talking with other people. Yeah I know that’s very silly and unusual but it’s just kind of a weird feeling I have, like I’m speaking to a mass conglomerate or a bot instead of a normal, living person. I guess I just got so used to people having their own, detailed profile that someone not having it feel strange and unnatural, if that makes sense.














  • Maybe just move the community instead? We don’t have to abandon it, most of the people are still present, they’re just scattered. Heck, the 196 lemmy proves that moving isn’t that bad of an idea. We should just unify it but on one different website, which is why I think moving all of it to Lemmy, shutting down raddle, kbin and squabbles while keeping tumbrl for more personalised experience and announcing that the community is moving to lemmy, while explaining that the tankie bullshit doesn’t really apply to 196 instance for those worried about tankie owners, is a better idea.



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    1 year ago

    Honestly, we should just start advertising Lemmy on the different alternatives and drive the community here, making it the new home, while still keeping the subreddit restricted with a link to lemmy instead of the god awful and confusing discord server (that isn’t even a 196 discord, why the hell did they pick it instead of making a new one?) while also informing about the tumblr tags for a more personalized experience. 2 alts feel better than a 5. We should also explain how the situation with the tankies looks like and why that’s not a problem on the 196 instance.