Subbing to unsynced communities is currently not the best experience. I think instances which know about each other should share the list of users/subs on a regular basis.
r/polyamory r/solopoly r/relationshipanarchy
Edit: Created https://lemmygrad.ml/c/relationshipanarchy
Glad there’s a reason for people showing up! I’m all in if people will stay.
That are not on lemmy.ml is literally in the title…