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So basically I’m voting democrat so our government doesnt start killing (more) vulnerable people. What a great system

Ugh being vegan is too hard, i dont want to only be limited to the literal hundreds of edible plants, and centuries of plant based cooking techniques. let me just eat the same 3 baby animals and their excretions.

Wow that sounds like a lot. I really hate the idea of privatized healthcare and I hope we do away with it eventually. I’m sending some good vibes your way, I hope your week turns around for you. ❤ We care about you

Good luck with the job search! Sounds like new and exciting things may be on the way for you. With any life style change, be kind and patient with yourself.

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That’s a big day for you and your son! Congratulations and the more empanadas the better!

Good luck on your interview!

I’m struggling with this myself. What my Therapist wants me to work on is self-compassion. You are doing so great, and what you are going through right now is very normal. What I want to tell you is how amazing you are by expressing this on the internet for people to read. It’s quite brave. Tell yourself something nice, because you are worth it. You are worth loving yourself for.

I’m so glad I choose Beehaw as my first Lemmy experience, and if I load up the site and it’s not working, oh well, it probably will shortly. I don’t need instant satisfaction all the time, this is a social place, not a work place. These features and forums are fun, and it sucks people want to take advantage of a volunteers time, Or expect premium features on a passion project many have contributed their free time to.

This very much gave me a smile. Thank you for the encouragement and kind words.

Well Beehaw has been a lot of fun. though I dont feel like i fit in, I’m learning a bunch. Just in a weird place. Im learning Jetpack compose with kotlin and although im understanding everything. i feel like a loser, and imposter syndrom. there is no way Im smart enough to code and develop applications. Im pretty much only skilled at delivering bear minimum stuff. My wife and I decided to try for a baby, but so far we’ve only managed to argue about petty things that dont matter.

Things are just weird because theres so much uncertainty in the next few months of where we will be. I just need to lead with my head on strait.

little daily accoplishmebts like doing the dishes, or cleaning my room and taking care of my hygiene make such a huge difference with how i view myself and my life

Plus, everyone has been so nice. Admittedly I have not explored too much further beyond Beehaw.

like all hot news this will be old news.

what will be difficult is all the FOMO, what is reddit doing? whats the top news over there. Im caring less and less.

im intrested in how you’re doing instead beehaw, are you okay?

I’ll take one! this has been a hard month

Sorry, I did edit that out of my comment there. did not mean any form of abalism in my comment. I did not consider being a sociopath a mental illness, now I know better. thank you.

Whatever we are the brink of, I just hope the people come out better on the other side. Yes I know lizard aliens running the state sounds crazy, but today it sounds less crazy lol. Alas, we live in such a boring dystopia.

I had a thought about all the alien stuff and if its true why the US government kept it a secret, and I was like “oh of course, its because the government is made of aliens”

I had to take a moment and think about how plausible that now feels lol.

Well, come to think of it. I guess we are making it right now. Just being here and being kind to what people share, and enjoying the moment of conversation.

Something social, and positive. Like r/roastme had a opposite one called r/toastme. Rather then burn and roast OP, you gave them compliments. It was a positive thing to see.