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I’ve got a 7". Most people can take that. 8" should be achievable.

Everyday I live in fear that the psychopathic manbaby who runs the company I wage slave for will make an arbitrary decision that robs me of the meager life I’ve built, and that nothing I do will protect me from that because I’ll never fit his toxic vision of a 10x engineer.

This is such a smooth brain take. Imagine being narrow minded and arrogant enough to believe there are no new experiences outside of those you’ve lived. No one in the history of human existence can truthfully claim that.

If thinking isn’t owning then having the exact same ideal body isn’t stealing. Yo ho yo ho an intellectual pirates life for me.

Oh same on the internalized gay is bad. Growing up I got made fun of for anything that I did that could be remotely interpreted as gay. I didn’t really accept myself being bi until my 30s because I felt this intense shame every time I felt anything towards men. I was constantly hiding my real self and so paranoid of anyone noticing something real about me in case they would start to put it together and expose me. I still haven’t really gotten over those feelings completely. A lot of that is neurodivergent masking as well. Shit’s complicated.

So here’s a weird thing to think about. I’m a bi trans woman, and for a large part of my life I was unaware of those things about myself. I sometimes felt sexually attracted to men but I never enjoyed seeing gay men do stuff romantically or in porn and found it uncomfortable. This was very confusing for me. The reason it was uncomfortable was because I was trying to put myself in their position in my head, but because I’m not really a man it felt wrong so I thought I didn’t really like men. I’m not saying homophobes have that experience, they probably don’t, but ones own sexuality can be very confusing when you aren’t living your own truth because you drank the coolaid of heteronormativity.

Bojack?

And my gay?

It was kind of a weak ass corporate whitewashed coming out though. No one ever said the word gay. I kept expecting him to finally say “I’m gay” but it just never happened and it really cheapened the whole thing for me.

If I remember correctly facial hair growth is most strongly driven by DHT, which is also responsible for male pattern baldness. You could take finasteride to block the conversion of testosterone into DHT to prevent both maybe. I think it would also reduce clitoral growth since that’s also driven by DHT, which may or may not be something you want so trade offs. Just some food for thought.

How could anyone say this beautiful girl is bad luck?

I want to shower dissociate so bad but my shower doesn’t get hot enough right now and I can’t dissociate in lukewarm water 😭

Sub-machine gun implies the existence of dom-machine gun

I like the cat ears on the sides. On top doesn’t make a lot of sense without some significant skull changes.

I know it usually comes from a place of compassion, but trying to change anyone who hasn’t explicitly requested help doing so pretty much always results in conflict, resentment, and estrangement if it continues too long, at least in my experience. I’ve been on both sides and it sucks for everyone. Still dealing with the fallout of a failed relationship that had this problem (them trying to change me) and I still feel so worthless and broken… I just want to be good enough today 😭

Yeah but who’s on first

I’m stressed out too…

Why don’t you list the definition you’re operating under so we can skip the talking past each other argument. I was saying twink in it’s modern usage is more of a vibe than strict “gay cis male early twenties with low body hair and body fat”. I wasn’t saying that sentence is the entire definition of twink, so you’re right that’s not what twink means.

I don’t think Link has ever been depicted as having any body hair, so he can’t really be an otter. Also twink has evolved beyond its usage in gay culture. These days it’s more of a general term that implies vague queerness more than explicit cis male homosexuality. We don’t really know if Link is a femboy, trans femme, trans masc, or what, but he’s definitely a twink under the modern sexuality agnostic usage.