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  • Depression is the worst sort of trap because the disease prevents you from seeking the cure. Men have fewer friends, fewer relationships, weaker social support networks, and a greater social stigma against seeking help.

    Very recently I’ve read at least 2 posts on Lemmy by men who opened up about a nerdy interest and about mental illness. Both faced rather severe rejection from their peers.

    A lot of this rejection of course comes from other men. But it’s not on an individual man to convince their friends not to reject them for opening up.

    So if we take your declaration in that light, what it amounts to saying is that men all need to simultaneously start acting differently than we’ve always acted. But you can say that about a lot of problems in society.




  • I think I see the issue. You’re not just assuming that you’ve been made dictator of an existing society, you’re assuming a completely blank slate society that you get to build up from scratch. Real dictatorships don’t have that luxury. They have to work within existing relationships and power structures. They need the loyalty of powerful people to become dictator in the first place. They don’t just get to hand-pick whoever they want for every role.





  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneyou rule
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    1 month ago

    But are YOU good at spotting talent? Or at the least do you know someone who is?

    This crucial first step (and it is only a first step) runs right up against the Principle-agent problem, and a major result of our inability to recognize talent generally leads to a Market for lemons.

    Dictatorships suffer immensely from these problems because the dictator is a national focal point for decisions. Every swindler and scammer in the country is running around trying to fool the dictator. Since the benefits of being on the dictator’s good side are sky-high and the costs of being on their bad side are severe, the incentives for honesty and transparency in communications are nonexistent. This is the source of dictatorship dysfunction.

    About the only thing dictators tend to be good at (if they survive) is navigating a complex web of sycophantic and untrustworthy relationships. There is a constant need for surveillance and purging of potential traitors which has the effect of inspiring fear and paranoia throughout the regime. This in turn feeds into the dictator’s own paranoia, which becomes a vicious cycle.




  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    2 months ago

    Read about black hat SEO and spamdexing / link farming. Prepare to be extremely frustrated and exasperated. Even the most benevolent and well-designed search engines struggle against the masses of (now AI-empowered) spammers and scammers out there.

    This is why we can’t have nice things.


  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRagebait Rule
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    2 months ago

    Yeah definitely move ladybird over to the right. Dunno about Brave but I’m inclined to mistrust it due to being for profit.

    Also Bitcoin isn’t really a privacy thing. Your transactions are broadcast to the whole network by design. You need other privacy tools to protect you from having your transactions tied to your identity.


  • Academic performance is about performing well on closed book written exams covering narrow subjects. The whole system is designed for 19th century teaching and testing. Using a computer does not help with that whatsoever and may in some cases hurt (by distracting someone who should be studying).

    I tutor high school kids as a volunteer (next year will be my 10th year doing so). Over that time period I have noticed a sharp decline in a lot of basic academic skills: mental arithmetic (without a calculator), spelling, grammar, handwriting. These are the very skills one needs to master to perform well on closed book exams. Your ability to research a topic or get help from Google (incl. spellcheck and grammar check in Google Docs) or ChatGPT is of no benefit whatsoever when all you’ve got is a pencil and a piece of paper in front of you.