At least for me, I feel the same way (despite liking women) because I disliked seeing something that was relatively low quality get upvoted purely because of sex appeal. Hell, there’s even a whole sub dedicated to the idea that people just paid attention to the sex appeal, only to be surprised that the content itself was really cool

https://www.reddit.com/r/UNBGBBIIVCHIDCTIICBG/ Upvoted Not Because Girl, But Because It Is Very Cool; However, I Do Concede That I Initially Clicked Because Girl.

I’ve never actually used many old style forums (except for Pine64’s) since I’m a bit younger, and my parents were strict on using the internet when I was younger. I like the idea of less content centralization since everything seems to happen on the larger websites, but I have no idea where to find almost any of these places lol