If you are feeling hopeless that you will never find love, you’re setting yourself for a rough time when a relationship ends, and an unhealthy one before it does.

There’s no magical transformation after your first relationship, except maybe in that the experience provides a new perspective from which you can reevaluate yourself and your understanding of life and love. Which is to say, after the first rush, you will not feel better in a relationship than you do now, all else equal.

In my experience at least :)

I apologize for the list of labels but I’m an atheist, autistic, agoraphobic, asexual, epileptic, trans, homeschooled-until-college 28-year-old cat lady.

If you met me you’d think I’m a relatively normal person though!

I’m a theatre kid working as a data analyst in local government healthcare.

I’m trying to learn Unreal Engine 5 but I’m struggling to keep going even though it’s a lifelong dream. Though I’ve made good and rewarding progress and I took all next week off to let myself hyperfocus without getting fired.

The Wall by Pink Floyd is my favorite album ever, and the first piece of art to make me sob. Every. Damn. Time.

This week is okay because I took next week off…

I can’t keep doing this 8-5 y’all.

Rail trails are amazing tbf, there’s one right that passes across the street from me, it goes 30 miles west to Lake Michigan.

That sounds awesome…!

Yay!! That’s awesome, I’d love to see those here.

Thanks for sharing! I like it so far, though I logged in but it was still saying I need to login before upvoting and commenting

It’s heartbreaking but that was the right choice I think. There’s an island in Greece where cats are an invasive species, they are everywhere. If I ever want I wouldn’t be able to leave without taking every needy cat I saw :(

Thank you 🙂

I will be continuing to learn UE5, catch up on some work, and hopefully feel better. Had to go to urgent care today for a appendicitis scare. X-Rays looked good so I just got steroids.

I’m a 28 yo trans woman and switched careers from arts admin to data science in healthcare. I’m learning UE5 in the hopes of realizing a game idea (city-builder/resource manager on a floating Rubik’s cube).

Special interests change regularly and include: electrical engineering, software development, anything space / cosmology / physics, sewing, piano, etc… It’s a problem.

I adopted to cats Shadow Lady and Stinky Jane last year and they are everything to me.

Anti-hobbies include eating, partying, public speaking, and dancing.

Ugh that’s amazing. I wish I had the follow-through to ever finish anything :( I need to contribute to things before making my own probably.

Sounds promising! I career-jumped from arts admin to data science to go from 35k to 61k and then there was a 10% company-wide raise a couple months after I started, so I pretty much doubled my salary.

Well, publishing something everyday should be easy, if you let yourself ☺️ you can do it

I walked six miles over the past four days compared to zero miles over all the days 😁