Oh, that makes sense. Thanks for explaining! 🙂

What does oversexualizing mean?

Like what does it look like and how do you do it?

We genuinely don’t understand.

I saw mommy fucking Santa Claus

Sociopathy and psychopathy are incorrect terms for ASPD, they’re meant to provoke fear. That was our only point really.

As for the rest of what you said, we’re well aware of a lot of it as it’s a special interest of ours (behaviour) and we’ve met people who have various ‘cluster B’ diagnoses and always did our best to understand them and work with them.

Though A lot of how you define/explain ASPD is incorrect, just so you know.

We weren’t really claiming anything about whether it’s ableist or not about choosing to have a relationship with someone who is diagnosed with ‘cluster b’ diagnoses or not.

Still, thanks for sharing your experience with us and we hope the treatment goes well.

A large number of those girls are borderline sociopaths, even murderers.

Good news, there is research showing even those which are ableistly called ‘sociopaths’ (which isn’t a real thing), and murders can be helped to not behave in harmful ways any more.

Agreed.

We don’t think we implied anything about the time we or anybody else who is polyamorous or relationship anarchist likes to be with others.

We have no deisre to give up on our current relationships of that kind, just we have more than one of them.

Edit: Nor did we imply how ‘bonded’ we are to any of them.

Edit 2: It seems not all penguins are bonded for life either: https://www.sciencealert.com/shock-discovery-reveals-penguins-dont-mate-for-life-after-all

Yes and no. There’s polyfidelity which means:

“Polyfidelity is a type of non-monogamous relationship in which all members are recognized as equivalent to the other partners and comply to restrict sexual and romantic relationship activities to exclusively only other members within the group.”

We’re not into that type of relationship personally and prefer it unrestricted/non-exclusive. That is where we were drawing our definition of fidelity from in this case. Apologies for the confusion.

Yes, which is why we were specifically talking about ourselves.

If you aren’t familiar with relationship anarchy then here: https://relationship-anarchy.com/

sighs and pulls out the guillotine.

Some of these, yes. But not fidelity. We love love that is free to experience it with whoever they want. Polyam and Relationship Anarchy FTW!

Good luck with that, we have a futon.

As beings in a body born in the time of millenials we don’t really relate to any of this, apart from Anarchism.

Then again, we’ve always been decidedly our own creatures than following the trends.

Certain T-Blockers like Spiro make you crave salt more.

Sleep is productive.

But also, you don’t need to be productive 🙂

Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.

Lol, on modern hardware it really doesn’t take that long.

Ah, this explains a lot.

Honestly though the DSM and all the diagnoses in it is one of the most harmful things to have ever happened. Especially the lies and misunderstandings it promotes.

There’s also a lot of ‘therapy’ types which aren’t at all helpful. The most commonly promoted and attempted to be used is CBT which looks to solve symptoms, not underlying root causes by reframing them.

A lot of modern therapy isn’t all that great at understanding individuals (or plural groups), really getting to the core of their problems and not treating them just like a littany of problems, all thanks to the DSM, even the therapist we see agrees, she thinks it would be better if we burned the DSM.

Sadly we think it’ll be a while before a lot of therapy given to folks is actually any good or useful and has caused so much harm in the process because it really isn’t built for purpose and based on foundational lies and misunderstandings.

delusional dame december.