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  • This is a really solid list! The One Within the Villainess is the one I came here to recommend. I love villainess stories and this one really feels the most unique to me, though I’d say at least half of your recommendations are some of my favorites and the rest are ones I’ve been thinking of picking up, and now probably will.



  • I know it’s going to feel like a platitude, but if you keep trying it will get better. Most of my twenties felt like a waste when I was in them, especially because I kept comparing myself to what I thought my path should be.

    But now looking back in my 30’s it’s clear that I I spent most of the earlier part experimenting to figure out what I wanted and just generally surviving while doing that. I started my career, met my now wife, reconnected with friends that wanted to support my instead of keeping me where I was.

    None of that would have happened if I didn’t keep pushing on, but it did often feel like I was treading water or even going backwards.







  • To expand on it a little more, I’m not sure why you really want to combine them. I get the idea of thinking of a single source of truth/gathering place, but that’s almost never actually been the case anywhere that I know of, and I think trying to force it will end up not actually serving the community well. I don’t think anyone will suffer for having multiple communities and most people are very okay with cross posting and realizing that articles and the like will be posted in multiple places if they’re interesting.








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    1 year ago

    This has a lot to do with the size of the community, at least for me. Often on Reddit I would have no idea if you were ever going to stick around to make the effort to correct you worthwhile, or if you were just someone that likes to argue endlessly because that’s how you get your entertainment. It just because easier to punish and move on that to try and correct.