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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • Most of the time. There’s rare exceptions. It’s the old “if your only tool is a hammer” thing.

    Sadly, part of those are just not wanting to take on a high risk patient at all.

    But there are surgeons that will give advice based on the actual patient needs and recommend other treatments, and outright refuse to do a surgery.

    But, yeah, surgeons in general assume that a patient coming to them needs surgery. That’s partly because they don’t tend to get patients walking in the front door independently. They’re going to be seeing patients referred to them by someone else that thinks surgical intervention is a possible best choice.

    They’re also trained to think like surgeons. Once they’re into training as a surgeon, they learn the human body, and thus the application of medical science, as something that gets operated on. Every problem becomes one to address in that way because they’ve spent years shaping their minds to be very good at that.

    It’s really no different in that regard than an it guy thinking of a computer problem in terms of their specialty, or a mechanic wanting to rebuild something that might be fine with a spray of wd40 and some duct tape.

    Hell, surgeons regularly have to deal with patients insisting on a surgery when other modalities are more appropriate. It’s a thing they gripe about
















  • Dammit, if that’s not gay, it should be! Because it’s fucking fabulous!

    I know, I know, we’re supposed to say it’s fake, and it could be. But folks, never, ever underestimate the power of passion and joy. It won’t overcome everything, every time, but I’ll be fucked if it doesn’t help overcome yourself often enough that it’s worth seeking.





  • I’m going to pretend you aren’t being an asshole for your own reasons, and explain why this kind of comment is a good thing.

    What you’re missing is that shared cultural touchstones connect people. Comments like this aren’t robotic responses to preset conditions.

    They’re humans reaching out to each other through screens to connect, even if it’s only some tiny and essentially frivolous thing. That’s a good thing. It’s the entire point of being human, to connect and share and hopefully help each other get through the ugliness that life brings.

    Where you see predictability and rote habits, the rest of us see a shared experience. The other people in the thread popping off the lyrics or making related jokes, we’re all engaged in letting each other know that we aren’t alone, that there’s parts of each of our individual lived experience that can be directly related. It means we have the ability to stop seeing just words on a screen, and for just that moment see someone we’ve never met and likely never will, as part of our in group.

    Friends in real life do this kind of thing. There’s phrases, and songs, and poems and book quotes, and movie lines that can be shorthand for shared experiences. It brings joy with it. Have you never seen a group of people say something that’s seemingly random and dissolve into laughter?

    That’s what this kind of thing is. It’s strangers partaking in one of the benefits of friendship. Making each other smile or laugh a little.

    If llms acted like this, they’d be one step closer to being actual artificial intelligence because it would make them part of that circle.

    My homie across the screen. You stepped into that circle and tried to poop in it. Did that bring you joy? Did you smile? If it did, then great, you’re one of the lucky ones that can find happiness in attempting to piss on someone’s picnic. If it didn’t, then what are you doing?