I’m very sorry you are in this place right now. I hope you are able to find something in music soon. It’s very difficult to get a taste of your passion but be stuck in something that makes you miserable.
I’m Ursakhiin. I can be called a refugee. I had been looking for a replacement off and on for a couple of years now but nothing ever took. I had become worn down by the pure memes and abuses by Reddits community.
I’m a software developer who plays video games and scuba dives in my free time.
In this story, the father builds a relationship with their son on common grounds. Parents and children speaking the same language makes building the trust where a child listens to the parent much easier.
In sure this parent and child had times where they were strained in their relationship but that’s not what the OP has chosen to share because that’s not how he wants to remember it.
This is very different than the relationship I had with my parents which was a lot of them trying to convert me to their interests and ignoring my own. And out of the gate yelling when they didn’t get their desired outcome from me immediately. I turned out mostly fine in spite of them. But I also wasn’t inspired to listen to them because they threw more tantrums than I did.