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  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•🌞 or 🌝 rule
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    4 days ago

    I was actually thinking about this the other day and concluded that the best way to label bathrooms is just a complete facility inventory to tell people what’s in there. Just put stylised pictures of two toilets, a urinal, two sinks, and a changing table on the door or whatever.





  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Definitely cares rule
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    3 months ago

    There’s an important distinction between not caring about race in the sense that you treat all people you encounter with equal consideration, and not caring about race in the sense that you disregard all racially based socio-economic concerns. A person flippantly expressing a lack of caring reeks of the latter.


  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Wikipedia link rule
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    6 months ago

    I’ve recently realised that what I’m “really into” is just people enjoying themselves and having a good time with whatever they’re doing, almost regardless of the specifics of that doing.

    Obviously there are a few hard lines that I won’t ruin the vibe by enumerating here, but broadly speaking, you do you, and I’m here for it.



  • vithigar@lemmy.catoFemcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•ohok
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    7 months ago

    Then it hit me that you typically don’t just take estrogen together and go to a Starbucks alone platonically.

    Maybe I’m just unusual as well but this doesn’t really sound that strange to me? I’ve gone to coffee shops and taken care of medical concerns in the company of platonic friends plenty of times.

    Very happy it has worked out the way it has for you though.


  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•reddit rule
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    8 months ago

    Disagree. The frustration caused to individuals looking for an answer far outweighs the utterly inconsequential reduction in Reddit’s “value” by removing the comment. Burning your Reddit history is performative nonsense that only causes problems for frustrated individuals.










  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•FtM rule
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    1 year ago

    …does she think that no man ever gets his eyebrows trimmed? It’s pretty far from being a meaningful concern of mine, but it’s something I’ve absolutely been offered (and occasionally accepted) when getting a hair cut.

    I guess it’s also possible I have the scenario reversed and she thinks no woman gets this done, but I feel like that doesn’t line up as well with the assumed stereotypes here.

    Or I guess another option is she thinks every single (insert transitioned gender) must do so.


  • vithigar@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Isruleation
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    1 year ago

    Exactly my thinking. For $30 billion I don’t care if I come out the other side a mindless husk. I’m leaving instructions before I go in about what to do with the money and improving as many lives as I can.

    If I make it out with enough of my mind to enjoy some of it myself then that’s just gravy.


  • The “something” in question is elements. Barring the very inadvisable edge case where you’re ingesting some kind of pure metal or degenerate matter there is not anything you can eat that does not contain chemicals.

    Complaining about a food containing “chemicals” makes about as much sense as calling out the software you use for being compiled from “code”.