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Cake day: July 17th, 2023

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  • Jorunn (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    3 months ago

    There’s a sort of societal pressure to present as your gender when you’re trans simply because it’s safer and the alternative is often being misgendered and marginalized. it’s also really scary to change presentation early on so early in the transition is when you’ll see many sort of “overcorrect” and go overly femme or masc, but many are perfectly happy to be gender non-conforming, and many try less hard as they get more comfortable with themselves.

    There’s also the growing trend of femboys or guys that present more feminine, and I see guys painting their nails more than before these days.

    I think a celebrity making a gesture or doing something symbolically is really cool, but at the end of the day the real signs of a cultural shift is what regular people are doing casually, and to me it feels like there’s something shifting, even if it’s slow going and there’s pushback.

    PS the trans dress thing sounds sort of accidentally transphobic, but looking at your profile I don’t think that was intentional and is just an issue of phrasing.






  • Jorunn (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Mto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneConspiracy rule
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    4 months ago

    Gonna be real with you all.

    I wouldn’t be surprised if the cannibalism stuff is true to some extent but I’m not equipped to sit here and fact check this. I’ve not seen all the emails but that one email shared was rather sus, but who knows with these rich fucks. Anyways, please don’t go full hog on something even if it’s likely. I think we can all live with this information squirreled into the “maybe true but we have enough reason to want to dethrone the oligarchs already so let’s hold off on saying that this is a fact until more info comes out” box.