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rambling_lunatic@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 year ago

Respectability Rule

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Respectability Rule

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rambling_lunatic@sh.itjust.works to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 1 year ago
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  • Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
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    Depends on your social circles I guess.

    • Sharpiemarker@startrek.website
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      Name a social circle where you can use language like in the first example, and it’s acceptable.

      • Armok: God of Blood@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Furry Discord servers

        • Sharpiemarker@startrek.website
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          I’m learning a lot today

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            Cums with the territory.

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              • Restaldt@lemmy.world
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                🍍

      • Neato@kbin.social
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        Friends who are OK talking about and don’t shame you about sex. Also friends who have a sense of fucking humor.

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        this one

        • Sharpiemarker@startrek.website
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          Well you got me there

      • Dion Starfire@sh.itjust.works
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        I know several people in the kink community who would congratulate and be enthusiastically happy for someone who said the first, but would only politely say “congrats” to the second.

      • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        A BDSM munch comes to mind.

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          I’m ok with not knowing what that is. I’ll take your word for it.

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            A munch is a non-sexual social gathering of kinky people with food.

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        My friends and family say this kind of shit all the time, I’m sorry your life is without humor.

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          Big assumption there chief

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        Furry convention

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      Half of my former social circle would have found the second version unacceptable

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