Hey Folks!
I’ve been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19€ bill? Here’s a 20, keep this change.
Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there’s a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don’t know how much has changed in this regard.
The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.
So will AITA if I don’t tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?
My rule of thumb is whether I’m getting a service or a product. If I eat at a restaurant and I have a waiter, I’ll tip. If I eat at a restaurant and there is no waiter I generally don’t tip.
For example. I don’t tip at ice cream or froyo places. I just served myself. Why would I tip?