It got better when I moved from the suburbs to the city, but it’s never going to be perfect. I like to focus on the parts I can control. I can’t make the landlord install better sound insulation in the apartment walls, that’s unreasonable. It should be a reasonable ask, but it isn’t. But I can control how many questions my girlfriend asks when I’m having a meltdown.
It got better when I moved from the suburbs to the city, but it’s never going to be perfect. I like to focus on the parts I can control. I can’t make the landlord install better sound insulation in the apartment walls, that’s unreasonable. It should be a reasonable ask, but it isn’t. But I can control how many questions my girlfriend asks when I’m having a meltdown.