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  • elouboub@kbin.socialto> Greentext@lemmy.mlLove Burnout
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    11 months ago

    Just use Feeld, bro.

    None of that “I’m just a girl looking to get rammed, but because I’m afraid people will call me a slut, my profile says random bullshit about like stars and wanting a relationship - teehee”. Women and guys on their are direct af. It’s like dating gay men (finally). “DTF?”, “Looking for a one night stand”, “Looking for a threesome with my partner”, “Only dating couples for a foursome”, “Just want to watch my boyfriend get pegged by a hot girl/dude”, etc.

    Tinder was supposed to be a hookup app, but Feeld is just so much better.

    Of course it can be used for finding relationships too, but at least people are clear about that. Much less of the “pretending to look for a relationship because I don’t want people to think badly of me”.














  • I think whatever rules are made won’t matter if there can be another server that breaks them and moderation is not something you can subscribe to. The simple reason: scaling. Reddit used to be OK, until facebook did something stupid and suddenly facebook users swarmed the site.
    Mastodon is currently going through this: it was pretty tame before Musk + Twitter happened. Twitter is the biggest trashcan I’ve ever seen and now the trash is migrating. Currently they are mostly sane people migrating, but the twitter mannerisms have already settled in: harrassing mastodon developers, “twitter had this feature, why doesn’t mastodon have it”, “I’ll block anybody with X in their profile”, “if you’re with X then you aren’t with Y –> block”, etc.

    The same happened to a few forums I was on - eternal september arrived and the quality dropped.