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Cake day: February 1st, 2024

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  • My kiddo is just a toddler, but in our VHCOL area, at this age the only thing that really matters is childcare expenses. If we had family/grandparents taking care of them, the additional cost would be pretty minimal, in the scheme of things.

    The max contribution to dependent FSA (tax free account for daycare) is a joke, less than 2mo of care.

    The material things we’ve needed probably amount to less than one month of daycare expenses (diapers notwithstanding).

    Saving for college, on the other hand…





  • Apparently an unpopular take, but wouldn’t the world (or at least, this country…) be a better place if the folks who became cops were the type of people who were also considering being a librarian?

    Basically it seems like the ACAB mindset is in part self-fulfilling: “cops are bastards , I’m not a bastard, therefore I won’t be a cop.” Ok, so now some bastard who is less qualified than you becomes a cop, with no competition from you.

    I get that the institution of policing in this country is deeply flawed; but is what we’re currently doing really working?

    Maybe a progressive, grass roots “infiltration” of the police is doomed to fail, I dunno. But I’m not sure we’ll ever find out.