Since Laura has been awol for a few months, I reached out to Ada to see if I could take over modding for this com. I know we’re fairly small but decently active so there’s not much to worry about, but I like the com so here we are.
I’m not planning on changing up anything as the banner/icon/desc all fit the vibes so they stay as is. (Maybe I’ll change the desc a bit since Laura originally wrote it in first person? idk)
If Laura comes back I’ll let her know the situation and we’ll go from there.
Love y’all!
Although I think I may have enjoyed some posts that others could see as invalidating, namely “the straight male urge to look like this” posts, cause they’re unironically relatable to me
I can see how it would, I can also see how the meme on its own could in and of itself be validating to the femboy experience. Since you know, it is actually true to a degree since there are femboys who want boobs and to be pretty, the problem is that the second interpretation, the implied invalidates them, and I think it’s important to make sure people are aware of that. It’s not just the memes themselves but the comments that follow afterwards. Obviously bad people are going to comment maliciously, but good people should know or be made aware of the potential to be hurtful, towards a group they might not even be aware of.