Since Laura has been awol for a few months, I reached out to Ada to see if I could take over modding for this com. I know we’re fairly small but decently active so there’s not much to worry about, but I like the com so here we are.

I’m not planning on changing up anything as the banner/icon/desc all fit the vibes so they stay as is. (Maybe I’ll change the desc a bit since Laura originally wrote it in first person? idk)

If Laura comes back I’ll let her know the situation and we’ll go from there.

Love y’all!

  • First Majestic Comet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    8 months ago

    I know here it’s not a huge issue, the thing is, Egging is an issue which is rarely if ever addressed, and if it is, it usually isn’t at the sources of it, typically it’s addressed in the femboy communities. I think it’s important for us, all of us to recognize how it can be hurtful, so we think more about it before doing or saying things that could make GNC people uncomfortable or invalidated.

    I can fully understand how memes can feel validating to one group and I respect that. I just feel it’s important to be careful not to be invalidating at the same time. One person’s happiness and validation should not come at the cost of another person’s happiness and validation.

    • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      8 months ago

      Gotcha! Yeah I wasn’t saying it shouldn’t be something that gets addressed, moreso just sharing my happiness at the current state of the community