Hi all,
I’m a 39M IT guy from New Zealand. Never been in a serious relationship, never had sex either, not sure if I’ll ever get to in the future. But I do hope to experience it at least once before I die, so that I can see for myself what the fuss is all about.
My favorite hobbies are cooking (vegan), gardening, pets, yoga, meditation, photography, karaoke, gaming, technology, reading books/manga/manhua/manhwa, Star Trek, hiking, trying out a different kind of tea every month, and going on early morning walks to catch the sunrise from a scenic spot.
AMA but please be nice, thanks!
Not the commenter you asked, but there’s a simple mantra called “no more zero days” which originated from some reddit post, but is kind of proven nowadays.
tl;dr: forgive and be grateful to yourself, read (books) / learn, exercise, do at least a very small thing every day, even if it’s just getting dressed and take a walk of 5min or reading 1 line in a book or doing 1 small household chore, e.g. doing the dishes or laundry.