• Fallibilist@feddit.uk
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    I wonder how the results changed if the question was put a different way. Even I struggle to answer this a bit. I don’t think society should “accept” my homosexuality. There’s plenty things I don’t “accept” either but I just stay out of it then. No need to like it - just don’t be a jerk and let me live my life. I don’t need your validation.

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      I mean good for you, but as a fellow homosexual, I demand acceptance.

      Tolerance is a pathetically low bar. We deserve equality and respect.

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        Respect is not deserved but earned on a individual basis for demonstrating good character. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.

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          Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

          and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

          and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

          https://kottke.org/18/05/the-respect-of-personhood-vs-the-respect-of-authority

    • Obi@sopuli.xyz
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      Wouldn’t the opposite of acceptance imply eradication?

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        Perhaps to some but one does not automatically follow from the other. There are additional steps to be taken in between to get from not-liking to wanting it destroyed.

        In my experience most people don’t have an issue with gays existing. The issue is with forcibly shoving that acceptance down their throats.

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          The issue is with forcibly shoving that acceptance down their throats.

          Eww, you sound like a maga