Levels for it because yes:

  • 0-5: Not There Yet
  • 6-10: Somehow There
  • 11-15: Moderate, Welcome To The Group
  • 16-20: Almost There
  • 21-24: Come On!
  • 25: True Femcel
  • MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.worldOP
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    6 days ago

    I think this… isn’t a femcel’s definition.

    A femcel is a woman who identifies as involuntarily celibate, feeling unable to form romantic or sexual relationships despite wanting to.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      6 days ago

      This place is very unstrict about its definition and understanding of “femcel.” It’s far more about being a fail woman than being an actual female version of an incel. Incels are toxic af, and genuine femcel spaces are awful places for both how they keep people in a cycle of self hatred, and how they make you a worse person to everyone else. A big goal for me personally with this place is to provide an alternative that still satisfies most of the same needs.

      Besides, if we truly gatekept people who were actual definitional femcels, we’d lose a lot of important users.

      • MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.worldOP
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        5 days ago

        Oh, hell, we aren’t beggining with this. When did I state this was serious and anyone that didn’t fit the bingo must leave? The server’s name says “memes”, the posts here are jokes.

        • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          5 days ago

          You came across as serious. If you intended not to then you could have used tone tags.

          We think we are correct in saying that your tone read as very hostile and gatekeepy to most readers here.