• maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    bars just… u know. serve alc, mostly.it feels like one weird place to go and like its the wrong place to look for… nice smart peeps and more loud party kinda peeps.

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      2 days ago

      That’s fair, I’ve definitely found plenty of smart folks there, just drunk ones. But I’m also a bit of a party girl myself. Ok maybe more than a bit… Go to the sorts of place you suspect the folks you’re interested in meeting go to. But don’t discount the bars and parties, I’ve discussed more literature at gay bars than you’d think, and there’s a certain vibe to a bunch of drunk lesbians gushing over The Dispossessed