• Battle_Masker@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    Seeing stuff like this makes me think more and more about if I was traumatized as a child, and by what. Well besides the chronic illness that almost killed me

    • SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      24 hours ago

      I’m frequently recommending “Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving” by Pete Walker for this. I always knew I had an unusual childhood but didn’t think my parents were abusive, just quirky. As an adult, I started seeing a therapist for anxiety. They strongly recommended this book after our first real session. Surprise: parental abuse so pervasive that I thought it was normal!

      I’ve had a few friends and acquaintances give it a read and they knew within the first few chapters if it was right for them or not.