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  • ImgurRefugee114@reddthat.com
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    3 days ago

    Really? Maybe I’m just weird about intimacy or something but my shortest relationship that wasn’t a literal joke was like 3 years, most being 4. If people are frequently under that then I wonder why they’re diving into relationships they don’t have high confidence in… Do people count grindr hookups as relationship?.. I guess I’ve never been one for dating so…

    • teegus@sh.itjust.works
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      3 days ago

      I was married for 3 years. Felt like a thousand tho. How is a grind hookup equivalent in any way to a 3y relationship?

    • Melissa@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.