She already did. You’re making it into daddy issues or inappropriateness when it’s entirely not that at all.
Just because YOU attribute malice to it doesn’t make it so. Your inability to separate the two is a you problem, not a kink or a sub/dom problem. And the fact you went on a whole tangent about how you feel it means makes you part of the problem of perpetuating something that just isn’t true.
The fact you felt the need to ramble on about what you think the term means or is derived from, when it was already explained to you that it isn’t that… You’re part of the problem.
I’m sorry that happened to your friend. But it isnt up to you how the word is used by consenting couples. You can totally not want it used around you, and that’s up to you and your partner. You don’t get to tell others not only that they can’t use it, but to say it’s something it isn’t, which is daddy issues.
She already did. You’re making it into daddy issues or inappropriateness when it’s entirely not that at all.
Just because YOU attribute malice to it doesn’t make it so. Your inability to separate the two is a you problem, not a kink or a sub/dom problem. And the fact you went on a whole tangent about how you feel it means makes you part of the problem of perpetuating something that just isn’t true.
The fact you felt the need to ramble on about what you think the term means or is derived from, when it was already explained to you that it isn’t that… You’re part of the problem.
I’m sorry that happened to your friend. But it isnt up to you how the word is used by consenting couples. You can totally not want it used around you, and that’s up to you and your partner. You don’t get to tell others not only that they can’t use it, but to say it’s something it isn’t, which is daddy issues.