• Draconic NEO@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 days ago

      The question is how do you know Kurt was binary trans or if they would’ve been okay with she/her pronouns? Comments like these are shitty in the way that egging comments are shitty. I have no doubt that Kurt was queer in some way. I’m not going to assume how or make assumptions on preferred pronouns because they’re no longer here to tell us or object to it if they don’t like it.

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          5 days ago

          If we go by that logic then it shouldn’t matter either that trans people are buried under their deadname. But it does, because respecting the dead isn’t about how they feel, it’s about how it affects the living.

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              5 days ago

              So you think affirming the fact that people can be NonBinary, and also saying people shouldn’t be intentionally misgendered after death because you feel like it is gatekeeping? Got it 👍

              If that’s why you got banned from .ml then you probably deserved it. You would get banned from many other queer friendly spaces for that kind of shit. It’s not accepted or tolerated.

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                  5 days ago

                  if you think that deletion of comments that promote bigotry is “deleting comments you don’t agree with” and is fascism, you probably shouldn’t be on Lemmy and you definitely shouldn’t go to any blahaj.zone communities.

                  @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone is very protective of minority members in our communities, and bigots can and will be quickly banned and have their shitty comments deleted. If you don’t like that, Gab and TruthSocial are that way 👉
                  Don’t let the door hit you on the way out.