Levels for it because yes:

  • 0-5: Not There Yet
  • 6-10: Somehow There
  • 11-15: Moderate, Welcome To The Group
  • 16-20: Almost There
  • 21-24: Come On!
  • 25: True Femcel
  • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    damn I’m like 4ish out of 25 (I’m only jealous of some women sometimes.)

    I always knew I was a bit of an imposter on this comm due to being employed and having had sex, but I didn’t know there was such an emphasis on prudishness. I thought this was the place where all the cool unstable hot bitches hung out. who’s out here covering all their skin and wearing granny panties?

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      I don’t think it’s prudishness, I think it’s more like embarrassment and comfort. At least, comfort is my guess for the granny panties part. I don’t wear those.

      I do cover up a lot as a way to hide my body. It helps to alleviate dysphoria. And I get the impression that there are a lot of other transfems here as well. Maybe there are cis girls here that cover up because they are unhappy with their appearance as well.

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        9 days ago

        oh damn you’re so right, I hadn’t considered like the pre or mid transition transfemmes. All the girlies I know have transitioned, and they’re all very happy with their bodies now and like to show them off.

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        I might be projecting a bit but I’m going to hazzard a guess that a lot of us here probably also have self harm scars we prefer not to show.

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      10 days ago

      And actually this is most of a “place where the cool unstable bitches who society hates due to their instability” hang out

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      jealous of some women sometimes

      That one I could’ve ticked, but it said other women.

      And hiding ones body is about insecurities I guess. It also can be really hot in summer