Seeking understanding is fine. Someone’s mom would love for you to understand their lifetime of trauma that rule prevents happening to your mom.
Challenging rules to avoid altering behavior, not to understand, is more the point of pathological demand avoidance. It is inherently not about why, it’s about a rule existing.
We’re describing different things.
Seeking understanding is fine. Someone’s mom would love for you to understand their lifetime of trauma that rule prevents happening to your mom.
Challenging rules to avoid altering behavior, not to understand, is more the point of pathological demand avoidance. It is inherently not about why, it’s about a rule existing.