• riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 days ago

    does it not get stimulating once healed? like masturbating with a dildo should also do the job at that point or not?

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      3 days ago

      That’s one of these questions about bottom surgeries I always wondered about.

      • flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works
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        Wow, this whole topic opened my eyes and broke me a little bit. Of course dilating is a thing and I gather it’s slow and hard work…

        What a journey! Mad respect for riding it through - you ladies are tough as fuck!

    • toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online
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      With mine I haven’t needed to dilate with any regularity in a few years (I’m six years out from surgery). The occasional dildo seems to work fine.