Yes~ :3

  • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip
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    13 days ago

    Ive been told by many people (including my fiance) that the first impression they get from me is that I’m a gentle bottom… and then sex happens and thats very very not true

    • Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zonedeleted by creatorOP
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      13 days ago

      LOL, that’s really freaking funny 🤣
      I’m pretty sure I’m kinda similar…in day-to-day life, I’m a freaking brat, lol. I’m bitchy, I complain, I talk back to people, I do not follow people’s instructions very much…and then in bed, all my resistance (and free will) melts away and I’m just the most obedient, submissive person ever…
      Funny how that works :3

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        13 days ago

        There’s a real crucial difference between wanting to follow someone’s instructions because you want to make them happy, and being compelled to follow instructions by someone you don’t really care about.

        I would do absolutely anything for my gf without a scrap of complaint, most anybody else gets “fuck that, you can do it yourself, you’re capable”.