This is literally my current relationship situation, and hey, I’m happy :3
We both look a bit different on the outside, but on the inside…this is us 🩷
Also I won’t ever stop wearing this really fucking stupid-looking hoodie. You literally can’t make me 😭
Bi guy here. Why I had to be born in Hungary, where trans rights are scarce, so I can’t get myself a cute trans GF? 😢 Now I have to hunt down the few non-bigoted Hungarian cis women (harder than it sounds like, esp. in more remote areas).
I hate that I understand that so fucking much…my country is the same. This is a gross generalization, but the men are conservative (and drunk af), the women are conservative, no one even knows what trans people are, everyone’s either knowingly or unknowingly a transphobic prick and I’m depressed from the fact 🥲
Transphobia, transphobic slurs, bigoted assholes
The “default” word people use to describe a trans women here is transka. I’m still not quite sure if it’s offensive or a slur, but it sure as shit sounds like a slur. I’ve been called that word before (by my ex-BFF, nonetheless, fuck that guy and his TERF gf) and it definitely didn’t feel good…
I fucking hate this country. People are like “Oh, I don’t care, I’m tolerant, I don’t care about you I only care about my own life.” and they go from that to “No I’m not gonna use your preferred pronouns, you fucking t*****, you don’t seem like an enough of a woman to me. When I feel that you’re ““female enough””, I’ll try. You’ve only been on hormones for a month anyway, it’s not like you just turned into a woman.”
These are legitimately words aimed at me. I’ve heard these from him. This was early HRT, a very emotional time. It hurt like hell. And he STILL insisted he wasn’t bigoted, that he only “had a differing opinion”. God, what an asshole.
You haven’t been to the university or the queer meetup, have you? I wish I could convince your BF, brother or someone else to make you go.
You can’t make me, that’s the whole point of being a brat 😭
I wish I could come… I know that could convince you but I can’t convince Mom that the university event lasted until 9 PM though…
You’re self-damaging yourself through negligence and I really wish I could do more about it. I’ve been using a fan for soldering btw, negligent self-harm is bad
No, sorry. Even that couldn’t convince me. I have a boyfriend, we’re together and I’m keeping my distance from guys I find attractive rn. Thanks for trying anyway 🩷
They’re not just guys. In fact, women will help you better with fashion, makeup etc. With some, you can talk about hormones, surgeries and other intimate topics! You’ve enjoyed that, haven’t you? I’m pretty sure you’re not the only trans girl in town.
Sorry, not interested. I feel like keeping my distance from people for a while. I need some space.
Sometimes you seem like you need some didtance from yourself too… Have you tried meditating?