If a person is really into the idea of getting fucked by someone with a penis, but completely put off by the idea of that someone being a big, strong guy, then, is it accurate to describe that person as attracted to men? I would argue no, as that is essentially reducing sex entirely down to genitalia.
Now, I am sure that some would argue that this is a thing that doesn’t happen in practice, and that a man who is into dick but men is just in denial due to internalised homophobia. And I think that’s definitely true in at least some cases. But I think an alternative explanation is that the man may be one of the humblest of God’s creatures; the cishet male bottom.
Women fuck men with strap ons all the time and that’s straight as hell. Why would that change if said woman has a real penis? That’s like arguing that gay men that top aren’t gay because an asshole is closer to a pussy than a dick.
I’m a cis woman though it doesn’t make a difference here.
I have fucked a lot of men with my strap on. A lot of straight cis men.
If a man identifies as straight, who the fuck are YOU to define someone else’s sexuality using your outdated views of sexual acts as gender affirming acts.
That you are reducing trans women down to a “feminine presenting penis” is bigoted behavior.
If a person is really into the idea of getting fucked by someone with a penis, but completely put off by the idea of that someone being a big, strong guy, then, is it accurate to describe that person as attracted to men? I would argue no, as that is essentially reducing sex entirely down to genitalia.
Now, I am sure that some would argue that this is a thing that doesn’t happen in practice, and that a man who is into dick but men is just in denial due to internalised homophobia. And I think that’s definitely true in at least some cases. But I think an alternative explanation is that the man may be one of the humblest of God’s creatures; the cishet male bottom.
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Women fuck men with strap ons all the time and that’s straight as hell. Why would that change if said woman has a real penis? That’s like arguing that gay men that top aren’t gay because an asshole is closer to a pussy than a dick.
No. Men who enjoy being penetrated by women are still straight. Whether it’s a cis or trans woman, they’re still women.
I’ve pegged many straight men. They’re still straight after I fuck them because I am a woman.
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I’m a cis woman though it doesn’t make a difference here.
I have fucked a lot of men with my strap on. A lot of straight cis men.
If a man identifies as straight, who the fuck are YOU to define someone else’s sexuality using your outdated views of sexual acts as gender affirming acts.
That you are reducing trans women down to a “feminine presenting penis” is bigoted behavior.
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You keep reducing trans women down to “feminine presenting penis” and yeah you’ll find the fight you’re looking for - that’s a bigot’s views.