This is my life for a few years now

  • maria ~@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    17 hours ago

    yea no, biting is not okay, nonono.

    that gets punished. in a way where its clear I love them but also in a way where they genuinely feel that it made me sad and I didn’t like it and I’d prefer they dont do it again. but still very much so they know I love them and I do this because I do.

    • Mistakes@sopuli.xyzOP
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      17 hours ago

      I’m a bit of a masochist, so I’m fine if a partner bites my muscles and less sensitive areas. Just don’t draw blood. I’ll proudly wear black and blue bruises on my chest and shoulders. If she ignores it when I tell her that’s enough for now, then she gets punished.