• Björn Tantau@swg-empire.de
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    4 days ago

    Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

      • letsgo@lemm.ee
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        3 days ago

        Did you just assume Gaming Night’s transness? Transsexual is a thing, and it’s distinct from transgender.

        • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          It’s not really that distinct, no. Not unless you’re transmed and believe pre and post op trans people need to divided from each other.

          Youre free to use whatever terms you’d like to use for yourself, but transsexual was how people referred to all transgender people until the term transgender took off in the late 90s.

          • dean [any pronouns]@beehaw.org
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            3 days ago

            go on bluesky and nearly the entire trans community uses the word transsexual. not in a transmed way (the community, at least my bubble, was very anti-transmed), but rather a “much of my trans identity comes from body dysphoria” way. when I was experimenting with bsky it was definitely a culture shock lol. I ultimately ditched bsky for separate reasons though

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              It implies a sex change op which is quite invasive of people’s privacy. It’s also inaccurate for a lot of trans folks who may only change their gender expression and avoid the operation altogether, hence the adoption of transgender that has the right emphasis.

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                  3 days ago

                  What’s the issue?
                  It has the wrong implications.

                  Sorry, I wasn’t clear!

                  It also sounds lewd but there’s a similar debate about “queer” even though that one has been mostly reclaimed.

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              Not op, but I was taught by one of my trans friends it was an old term and not very correct nowadays as it inferred being trans was something sexual and not just yknow, bring trans ig

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          Can you explain what it means to me? I’m nb and I’ve always disliked it because it tends to confuse people, making them think being trans is a sexuality.