As someone who has recently been the person who doesn’t care anymore, but has also been the one who does, you aren’t doing yourself any favors clinging to someone who isn’t interested. It’s just going to hurt both of you the whole time and end the same anyway. You can’t change their feelings or your own feelings, but you can let them go and try to move on. It sucks and it hurts and it feels like such unfair bullshit, but in the end you will be better off without them, and as painful as it may be to hear they will be better off too.
As someone who has recently been the person who doesn’t care anymore, but has also been the one who does, you aren’t doing yourself any favors clinging to someone who isn’t interested. It’s just going to hurt both of you the whole time and end the same anyway. You can’t change their feelings or your own feelings, but you can let them go and try to move on. It sucks and it hurts and it feels like such unfair bullshit, but in the end you will be better off without them, and as painful as it may be to hear they will be better off too.
I look back at the times I clinged too hard to a one-sided relationship for a long while with immense cringe
happy cake day!
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