I don’t understand, do they have some kind of VPS with Jellyfin etc. via SSO / LDAP for their polyamorous group? And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing? My chronically single ass is so confused rn.
Trying to play helldivers with 3 out of the 4 people in one has been such a nightmare of being invited in and asked to leave so #4 can join, I can only imagine it being worse being in it
Then again I’m probably not a good judge considering I don’t think I could handle a mono relationship
Right‽ I really want an open source, private, simple, self hosted way to cleanly aggregate everyone’s calendars when they’re all using different google/microsoft/apple/work ones.
google calendar and outlook can both kinda do it and Android does it pretty well in calendar apps but otherwise there’s a lot of manually messing around with icals and CalDav.
I’d love a simple, polycule-friendly docker container with a web interface where you can log in and it lets you add all your calendars (or create private ones) and share them with other partners. Throw in a cross-platform mobile app for good measure.
There’s stuff like nextcloud but the integration with other calendars seems a bit iffy and it’s got a lot of extra corporatey cloud stuff. It would be nice to have one that’s simple and quick enough for non-techy people to use.
And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing?
I legit sent this to my poly group because I’ve got more than a few technicals friend in there that would giggle about that.
I almost tagged my old manager too, specifically because my throuple jokes about the number of people in their partner space. I can’t talk too much because she and I share more than a few partners 😅
Yeah, as a single person I just download torrents from a torrents tracker, watch them locally, and delete afterwards if there are enough seeders besides me. Feels kinda zen compared to all the mess other people are doing.
I don’t understand, do they have some kind of VPS with Jellyfin etc. via SSO / LDAP for their polyamorous group? And they even have a ticket system? How many people are they seeing? My chronically single ass is so confused rn.
mono folx really underestimate the logistics that go into making poly relationships work.
Trying to play helldivers with 3 out of the 4 people in one has been such a nightmare of being invited in and asked to leave so #4 can join, I can only imagine it being worse being in it
Then again I’m probably not a good judge considering I don’t think I could handle a mono relationship
Honestly, calendaring is probably the hardest part. Managing the authentication and OU structure of a complicated polycule is simple in comparison
Right‽ I really want an open source, private, simple, self hosted way to cleanly aggregate everyone’s calendars when they’re all using different google/microsoft/apple/work ones.
google calendar and outlook can both kinda do it and Android does it pretty well in calendar apps but otherwise there’s a lot of manually messing around with icals and CalDav.
I’d love a simple, polycule-friendly docker container with a web interface where you can log in and it lets you add all your calendars (or create private ones) and share them with other partners. Throw in a cross-platform mobile app for good measure.
There’s stuff like nextcloud but the integration with other calendars seems a bit iffy and it’s got a lot of extra corporatey cloud stuff. It would be nice to have one that’s simple and quick enough for non-techy people to use.
Cal.com. It’s also open source.
I keep telling myself I need an excuse to figure out how to make docker containers…
I legit sent this to my poly group because I’ve got more than a few technicals friend in there that would giggle about that.
I almost tagged my old manager too, specifically because my throuple jokes about the number of people in their partner space. I can’t talk too much because she and I share more than a few partners 😅
It’s satire
Yeah, as a single person I just download torrents from a torrents tracker, watch them locally, and delete afterwards if there are enough seeders besides me. Feels kinda zen compared to all the mess other people are doing.