another post cuz im on a roll.

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the source image is a twitter screenshot. you can see it here.

CW: insults you after calling you a baby. sad feels

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i warned u!!!


the text content was written by me.

someone posted this “poor baby” post on matrix where its about someone using bots to generate bs.
it started with “poor baby” which made me feel safe but it ends up insulting u which made me feel deeply hurt. so now im here and edited the post thing. this is slightly higher effort post than the last one.

i will now go to sleep. hope yall r having a fun evening or night or day or morning <3

  • toynbee@piefed.social
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    4 days ago

    I am not a mommy, but I try to find a fine line between “I’m always here to help you” and “we can do hard things” for my kid. Sometimes I miss and we both end up frustrated, but I try.

    • maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      yesssss that is a great way to go about it. btw, imma change that mommy word cuz yeaaa that really does have different vibes than what i was going for. will do once home.

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        4 days ago

        Honestly, I didn’t know you were a mommy. That’s cool.

        In case it’s a comfort, I am a dad. Most of my time is spent at home with my wife and child. I don’t really interact with many other people and, to our kid, I refer to my wife as “Mommy.” It’s become a habit … To the point that when we did have guests, I kept referring to her as “Mommy” even after the kid went to bed. That’s the only time I thought it inappropriate to say it and I didn’t realize that until it already happened.

    • snowsuit2654@piefed.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      yeah the homework thing comes to mind for me. I remember in school having classmates whose parents did their homework for them. As an adult now I see that is such a disservice to the child. Helping them learn how to do it is great but doing it for them entirely might be setting them up to fail later.

    • Appie Elomekra@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      No. While it can be a fetish for some, this doesn’t really give off such vibes. Somemany seeking comfort from a maternal figure is not fetishstic.

      • Zephyr@sh.itjust.works
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        4 days ago

        As a baby or child, sure. As an adult person the language is laying it on a bit thick. It’s like the opener of an abdl script.

        • Appie Elomekra@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          4 days ago

          We know maria in person. She’s more of a cutsie girl who wants to become a mother, rather than someone with fetishes and sex.

          Sheesh, yall would project sex unto everything. Yes, mommy and daddy are heavily sexualized words, but please do try to think of alternatives :\

          • cloudskater@piefed.blahaj.zone
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            Its talking to the reader like they’re a child, and really trying to sell it too. I’m not projecting anything, it just read like a post from a fetish account.