hmmm in my mind rewards are like - overwhelming your subbie and really going ham on them and kissing them all over furiously and such, making them lose that feeling of needing to hide how nice they feel. but a punishment! >o< im honestly not sure what that would even be… iguess teasing. hurting them feels wrong…
but that is terrible!!! ignoring them… no, nonono, I couldnt do that. Neglegance goes beyond punishment, that is just… cruel. in the sad way. in the lonely cold not-fun-al-all way.
thats no fun. not for me, not for the subbie, no I don’t want that, thats just so very sad I couldnt bare neglecting… no, no that feels bad… imma stay with teasing
hmmm in my mind rewards are like - overwhelming your subbie and really going ham on them and kissing them all over furiously and such, making them lose that feeling of needing to hide how nice they feel. but a punishment! >o< im honestly not sure what that would even be… iguess teasing. hurting them feels wrong…
Punishment could just be ignoring them
What is this? ABA?
but that is terrible!!! ignoring them… no, nonono, I couldnt do that. Neglegance goes beyond punishment, that is just… cruel. in the sad way. in the lonely cold not-fun-al-all way.
thats no fun. not for me, not for the subbie, no I don’t want that, thats just so very sad I couldnt bare neglecting… no, no that feels bad… imma stay with teasing
Well you don’t have to ignore them for a while day lol. Just a couple minutes. Or walk to the kitchen and make yourself a sandwich then come back.
but leaving them lonely… no. I couldnt do that.