Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 6 days agoClub rule [CW: mentions of chasers]NSFWlemmy.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square36linkfedilinkarrow-up1159arrow-down18file-text
arrow-up1151arrow-down1imageClub rule [CW: mentions of chasers]NSFWlemmy.blahaj.zoneMiisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 6 days agomessage-square36linkfedilinkfile-text
minus-squarefonix232@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up25·6 days agoAnd that’s why I do t go to clubs. I’m horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal…
minus-squareAxolotl@feddit.itlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·5 days agoI wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain’t birds who have to make signals
minus-squarejacksilver@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·5 days agoMost of the clubs I’ve been to I can’t even hear myself think, let alone have a conversation.
minus-squarefonix232@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up3·5 days agoBecause people aren’t comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you’re dancing with someone. “hey can I touch your waist” etc.
And that’s why I do t go to clubs.
I’m horrible at reading body language directed at me, so I either end up doing something inappropriate because I misread the situation, or, the much more likely scenario is, I end up doing nothing when I was given the (not so) clear signal…
I wonder why the fuck we cannot just talk, we ain’t birds who have to make signals
Most of the clubs I’ve been to I can’t even hear myself think, let alone have a conversation.
Because people aren’t comfortable talking. And it does make it awkward when e.g. you’re dancing with someone. “hey can I touch your waist” etc.